7 Tips To Build More Confidences

I have noticed over the years working with people the lack of self believe so many have. They second-guess themselves, they keep their head down when walking, they hesitate to speak in groups or meetings and it takes them a while to make a decision.

Perhaps your self-confidence needs a boost. Here are some short tips to build a more confident you!



• Always show a real appreciation for a gift or compliment. The ability to accept or receive is a universal mark of an individual with solid self-esteem.
• Dial down the nagging, critical voice. Imagine a volume control and lower the volume.
• Don't brag. People who brag about their own exploits or demand special attention are simply trying to build themselves up in the eyes of others.
• When doing something for the first time, imagine you have already done it. Your mind does not know the difference between vividly imagined and real.
• Greet others with a smile and look them directly in the eye. A smile and direct eye contact convey confidence born of self-respect.
• Find someone already confident in the area of expertise you need and watch how they do it.
• Act as if you already have the habit or behavior you desire. If you were confident, how would you be feeling? What would you be thinking? With practice, your behavior becomes habit.


As always,

MY GOAL - YOUR SUCCESS!

3 comments:

  1. Great tips Martin!I especially agree with the 3rd one!! :)Loving the blog.Will be back.Mark my words!

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  2. Venessa, thanks for the comment much appreciated.

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  3. Great post, Martin! Solid ways that anyone can use to build a more confident self. Thanks for sharing them.

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